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#604 Prayer for the husband to support his wife after birth

RABBI BERLAND'S PRAYER FOR A HUSBAND TO SUPPORT HIS WIFE AFTER BIRTH #604   PRAYER FOR THE HUSBAND TO SUPPORT HIS WIFE AFTER BIRTH   Master of the world, who can do anything, in the honor of my dear wife who brought for me a fruit of her bosom with incredible suffering, and she didn’t hold back from herself all the incredible suffering of birth pangs, and the difficulty of pregnancy and birth. And she took it all upon herself with tremendous strong love beyond comprehension, without any complaints and without any sighing, and she never made heard before me any complaint about her incredible suffering. And she took it all upon herself with tremendous happiness and awesome love.  Please Hashem, put in my heart to reciprocate to her for her great kindness, grant me the merit to reciprocate a drop in the ocean with her, and to pay her back for her great kindness, and to serve her faithfully immediately after birth with exalted self-sacrifice day (96) and night (81) = 177. Grant me the merit to serve her without stopping for a moment, and grant me the merit to ease her incredible suffering, whether it’s the difficulty of pregnancy, the difficulty of birth, or the difficulty of raising the child. I should always merit to make my dear wife happy with all types of joy in the world, to maker her happy day (96) and night (81) = 177, and to always buy for her sweets and savory foods. And to make her happy with all types of joy. May I merit through this to enter with my body into Gan (53) Eden (124) = 177.   ==== בס"ד    604      לִזְכּוֹת לְהוֹקִיר וּלְהַעֲרִיךְ וְלִתְמֹךְ בְּאִשְׁתִּי וּלְהָקֵל מֵעָלֶיהָ אֶת הַיִּיסּוּרִין וְלִגְמֹל וּלְהָשִׁיב לָהּ וּלְשָׁרְתָהּ בְּנֶאֱמָנוּת וּלְשַׂמְחָהּ יוֹמָם וָלַיְלָה וּבִזְכוּת זֶה לְהִכָּנֵס עִם גּוּפֵינוּ לְגַן עֵדֶן  תְּפִלָּה שֶׁהַבַּעַל יִתְמֹךְ בָּאִשָּׁה אַחֲרֵי הַלֵּידָה  רִבּוֹנוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם כֹּל יָכוֹל, לִכְבוֹד אִשְׁתִּי הַיְקָרָה שֶׁהֵבִיאָה לִי פְּרִי בֶּטֶן בְּיִיסּוּרִין נוֹרָאִים, וְלֹא מָנְעָה מֵעַצְמָהּ אֶת כָּל הַיִּיסּוּרִין הַנּוֹרָאִים שֶׁל חֶבְלֵי לֵידָה, וְשֶׁל צַעַר הָהֵרָיוֹן, וְהָעִבּוּר וְהַלֵּידָה, וְהַכֹּל לָקְחָה עַל עַצְמָהּ בְּאַהֲבָה יְתֵירָה וַעֲצוּמָה עַד מְאֹד, לְלֹא שׁוּם תְּלוּנָה וּלְלֹא שׁוּם אֲנָחָה, וּמֵעוֹלָם לֹא הִשְׁמִּיעָה בְּפָנַי אֵיזוֹ תְּלוּנָה עַל יִיסוּרֶיהָ הַנּוֹרָאִים, וְהַכֹּל לָקְחָה עַל עָצְמָה בְּשִׂמְחָה עֲצוּמָה, וּבְאַהֲבָה נוֹרָאָה, אָנָּא ה', תֶּן בְּלִבִּי לִגְמֹל לָהּ כְּרוֹב חֲסָדֶיהָ, וְטִפָּה מִן הַיָּם אֶזְכֶּה לִגְמֹל עִמָּהּ, וּלְהָשִׁיב לָהּ כְּרוֹב חֲסָדֶיהָ, וּלְשָׁרֵת אוֹתָהּ בְּנֶאֱמָנוּת מִיַּד אַחֲרֵי הַלֵּידָה בִּמְסִירוּת נֶפֶשׁ עִילָאִית יוֹמָם 96 וָלַיְלָה 81 = 177, אֶזְכֶּה לְשָׁרֵת אוֹתָהּ לְלֹא הֶפְסֵק שְׁנִיָּה, וְאֶזְכֶּה תָּמִיד לְהָקֵל מֵעָלֶיהָ אֶת יִיסוּרֶיהָ הַנּוֹרָאִים, בֵּן בְּצַעַר הָעִבּוּר, וּבֵן בְּצַעַר הַלֵּידָה, וּבֵן בְּצַעַר גִּדּוּל הַוָּלָד, וְתָמִיד אֶזְכֶּה לְשַׂמֵּחַ אֶת אִשְׁתִּי הַיְקָרָה, בְּכָל מִינֵי שִׂמְחָה שֶׁבָּעוֹלָם, וּלְשַׂמְחָהּ יוֹמָם 96 וָלַיְלָה 81 = 177, וְלִקְנוֹת לָהּ מִגְדָּנוֹת וּמִטְּעָמִים תָּמִיד, וּלְשַׂמְחָהּ בְּכָל מִינֵי שִׂמְחָה, וְעַל יְדֵי זֶה אֶזְכֶּה לְהִכָּנֵס עִם גּוּפִי לְ-גַן עֵדֶן 124 = 177.  ==== VISIT THE A-Z OF PRAYERS BY RABBI ELIEZER BERLAND, HERE. [https://ravberland.com/written-prayers-for-all-occasions/] ====   https://ravberland.com/35-prayer-to-cancel-decrees/