The miraculous shidduch of Shira's son
THE MIRACULOUS SHIDDUCH OF SHIRA'S SON Shira[1] recently contacted us to share the amazing story of her 30-something son, who recently got engaged after Shira decided to participate in Rav Eliezer Berlandâs âTikkun for Singlesâ, under the aegis of Rav Ofer Erez. Hereâs her story, in her own words: âMy son was already in his mid-thirties. Heâd already finished the army and graduated university with a degree, and found a good job in Tel Aviv that paid him a lot but was very stressful, and he was working around the clock. âHeâd been married before, when he was much younger. The marriage ended quickly, and after that it seemed as if a brick wall rose up to keep out his soul mate, whoever she was. âA few months ago, I saw an ad for Rav Ofer Erezâs âtikkun for singlesâ, so I thought to myself, âletâs do it!â But money was tight in our household, and I didnât think that my husband had any cash for the tikkun. So I started calling my other relatives, to see if theyâd contribute.â Even though Shiraâs relatives were observant Jews, they werenât interested in contributing money to pay for the tikkun. Shira explains: âItâs not that they didnât care about my son, God forbid; itâs just that they didnât trust the whole idea. âItâs a scamâ, they told me. They werenât comfortable about paying any money to the Rav. I was very disappointed;  I really didnât have the money myself. Then I remembered I had a Breslov friend in the States, and I asked if sheâd be willing to give me a loan. âIt looked like that was going to work out, but then she told me she could only lend the money if I paid back by installments through a US bank account--and I didnât have one. So again, I was really disappointed. âI decided to pray on it, and then I asked my husband if there was any way we could make the tikkun for our son. âSure!â he said, just like that. So we made the tikkun at the last minute.â But the challenges werenât over. âThey sent me the prayer for my son to read but, when I tried to give it to him, he said, âWhy did you do that?! Why did you waste your money? Donât give them my email address! I donât want them bothering me.â  To this day I donât know if he said the prayer or not. So I said the prayer at the specified time, just in case.â Shira didnât hear anything for the next four months. She kept waiting and hoping that somehow the Ravâs tikkun would produce some result, but there was absolutely no sign of progress. âMore than once, I wondered if I should ask for the money back,â Shira said.  âSo I prayed on it and thought it would be good for the Rav to keep the money. âStrange things were happening all this time, but I barely paid attention.  My son suddenly moved to a new apartment, and found a job in a different city; he suddenly seemed interested in coming to shul and talking to God,â recalls Shira. âJust before Rosh Hashanah, my son brought someone home to meet me. The brick wall fell down. What can I tell you? She is perfectly matched for him. He admitted they had met just a month after the tikkun, but he kept it a secret until he felt absolutely sure that she was the one. "A few last words: His name is Shalom, and her name is Reut, which is interesting--because in the grace after meals at a wedding, we bless G-d and the couple with ten expressions of happiness and love, and the last two are peace and friendship. The Hebrew translation for peace is, as you know, Shalom. And the Hebrew translation for friendship is Reut."  [1] Names and some identifying details have been changed.