Why Do You Need to Get Married? â The Daily Chizzuk with Rav Eliezer Berland Shlitâa
THE DAILY CHIZZUK WITH OUR REBBE, THE GAON AND TZADDIK RABBI ELIEZER BERLAND SHLITâA â âYOU RECEIVE THE MOCHIN BY WAY OF YOUR WIFE.â TUESDAY, 8 SIVAN 5782 These are his holy words: WHY DOES A PERSON HAVE TO GET MARRIED? A person receives the mochin [supernal mentalities/mind] only by way of his wife â âwith this, Aharon may enter the sanctuaryâ (Vayikra 16:3). âThisâ is oneâs wife â if heâs not married, itâs forbidden for him to enter the sanctuary. A person receives all the mochin by way of the mochin of his wife. Then he receives the mochin. If not, he doesnât receive any mind. He doesnât develop. CHANNAHâS PRAYER TO MERIT TO THE LIGHT OF MASHIACH The light of Mashiach, because now weâre bringing in the light of Mashiach, âMay He give power to His king and raise the pride of His anointed one (Mashiach) (II Shmuel 2:10) â the light of Mashiach which was through Channah. Channah wanted to draw the light of Mashiach. Channah prays for the light of Mashiach. âMay He give power to His king and raise the pride of His anointed oneâ -- everything that Channah prayed was for the light of Mashiach. âMay [Hashem] judge to the ends of the earth; may He give power to His king and raise the pride of His anointed oneâ â that the entire prayer of Channah was to merit to the light of Mashiach. WHY THERE ISNâT A FIFTH CUP ON SEDER NIGHT? So why donât we make a fifth cup [on Seder night] opposite âI will bringâ? [Since there are five languages of redemption and only four cups, and âI will bringâ is the fifth language of redemption.] Because âI will bringâ is only Mashiach. âI will takeâ is possible, but the language of âI will bringâ we donât drink. This is the cup of Eliyahu HaNavi. âI will bringâ is parashat VâEra, âwith drums and with dances.â There is âI will take out; I will rescue; I will redeem; I will take.â However, âI will bringâ has no cup. âI will takeâ is Eliyahu HaNavi â this is only in the coming future. Even though we came and there was an exile â this was canceled out â the question was canceled out. After this, we came a second time â another time this was canceled out. âI will bringâ is only in the coming future. Therefore, the cup of Eliyahu HaNavi will only be drunk in the coming future. Now, itâs still not possible to drink it, but âI tookâ is possible.